As you know we have readers from all areas and of all ages. In the past week, I have received emails from 2 readers that they had new babies!!! Having a baby is one of the most exciting experiences you will ever have but you may be overwhelmed with the sheer responsibly of caring for your little one. You will be responsible for your baby’s every need so it is easy to get carried away thinking you aren’t doing enough as a parent. Whether you’re overwhelmed with the number of items you think you need to care for your baby properly or you are stressed out by several weeks of sleep deprivation after the baby arrives, here are three truths that can help you prepare for and navigate the newborn stage.
You’ll Need More Clothes Than You Think
A lot of people get carried away while buying baby clothes and end up purchasing way more than they need. Other people try to limit the number of clothes they buy and end up with a full hamper and no clean baby clothing because they haven’t had time to do laundry. If you want to reduce clutter by buying fewer baby clothes, you may make life harder for yourself in the long run. Make sure you have enough clothing of different sizes to change the baby several times a day for at least a week. If you have enough clothes, you won’t get as stressed if you can’t always keep up with laundry. This also gives you an excuse to purchase adorable designs from online boutiques that carry brands such as Little Green Radicals baby clothing.
You Don’t Need a Million Toys
You may think you need a ton of toys to help your baby develop properly, but having so much stuff to put away will only put more stress on you. In reality, babies need very few toys at first. Rattles, books and playmats will likely be all the baby needs for the first couple of months and you can add new toys throughout the year as the baby grows. Introduce teethers and three months and add a set of wooden blocks around six months. Stuffed animals make great toys at any age.
It’s OK To Take a Break
It’s normal to feel overwhelmed for the first few weeks of your baby’s life. You probably won’t get much sleep and your house may not be as clean as it usually is. You may be surviving on fast food and frozen meals instead of cooking healthy foods every night, but you don’t need to feel bad about being in survival mode. When you’re feeling overwhelmed, don’t be afraid to ask a friend or family member for help. It will do you a world of good to step away from parenting responsibilities for an hour or two so you can focus on your mental health.
Parenting is a huge responsibility and you may be overwhelmed by it. Whether you are anxiously awaiting your little one’s arrival or are struggling with all of your responsibilities after the baby is born, keep these three truths in mind to remind yourself that you are doing your best to be a good parent.
Everyone around here loves Chili. I had been searching for a while for a healthier version. I found this Weight Watchers Zero Point Chili (means you can have 2 servings) on Pinterest. I have not tried it yet but the reviews were sooo positive, I decided to share right away. They say it is even better the next day. Since so many of my readers are also Chili lovers I think this might be our go to fall recipe. Bon Appetit!!
adapted from mess for less
Ingredients
- 1 pound 99% fat free ground chicken or turkey
- 1 can of Kidney beans drained (15 oz)
- 1 can diced tomatoes with green chiles 14.5 oz
- 1 can diced tomatoes 14.5 oz
- 1 small onion chopped
- 1 tablespoon chili powder
- 1 teaspoon cumin
- 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
- 1/4 teaspoon garlic powder
- 1 tsp salt
- Shredded low fat/fat-free Cheddar Cheese
Instructions
- Cook ground chicken in a pan, breaking it apart to create crumbles.
- Add chicken to a crock pot along with kidney beans, 2 cans of diced tomatoes, chopped onion and spices.
- Stir to combine the ingredients.
- Set crock pot to high and cook for 4 hours.
- Top with cheddar cheese and serve
I have noticed so many of my neighbors and social media “friends” decorating the most beautiful front doors. From cabbage leaves to multi-colored pumpkins, they have it covered. I really do not know how I want to decorate for fall this year. I don’t love mums even though they are a fall staple. They do not last long at all and they are so sad looking when they start to die. My favorite tip is to spray your pumpkins with a clear high gloss spray. This keeps the squirrels away and keeps them looking nice for the entire season. Here are my inspiration pix for my fall outdoors…
I first have to say…BBQ was really never my thing. My husband LOVES it. So I was always along for the ride. A few years ago my friend Todd, really got into using a smoker in his cooking and one night at his house BBQ’d for everyone….Needless to say…it was AMAZING. I have introduced you to his Instagram page Happens At The Bean. If you don’t follow it, you really should..its really great….Last week Todd told me he started cooking with his friend, Leland, a BBQ guru and owner of the Avellino Family Barbecue and who has created a Saturday take out menu with a pick up in Stamford. Each week they email you the menu. You place the order by Thursday and arrange for a Saturday afternoon pick up. You can eat it that night or they will give you reheating instructions so you can buy for the upcoming week!! So far, we have had the Corn Bread, Ribs, Wings with the “Woody” Marinade, and the Brisket. Everyone in our house thought it was the best BBQ we’ve ever had!!!!!! We cannot wait for this weekend!!! To get on the list or to order for Saturday night, click HERE. I might have to try those baked beans!!!!
Each year as fashion week rolls around, newly introduced shoes, handbags, and trends appear on the horizon. However, another category that is highly anticipated is the trends in new Jewelry. Newly introduced Jewelry styles bring maximum excitement to lovers of fashion.
Have you ever asked yourself if your outfit is complete without adding a special earring or another piece of Jewelry? Jewelry just adds more beauty to an outfit. There are a few trends in Jewelry for the Fall of 2020, ranging from elegant and polished to glamorous and bold. And you can find them all at TradeGets’ Fashion Jewelry.
Channeling the Victorian era, all designers are seizing influence from decades of ideas. You will see this era reflected in the earrings, rings, bracelets, and necklaces shown throughout the Fall. Here are some of the trends we are looking forward to seeing in the next few months:
- Monarch Pearl Choker Necklace
Pearls are having their moment. The monarch choker necklace is beautiful on its own or layered with other necklaces of different lengths.
2. Spike Jewelry
Time to add a little edge to your wardrobe. Spiked accent jewelry is all the rage right now. If you don’t want to go for a full choker look how about trying a cool bracelet?
3. Gold Hoop Earrings
Whether you choose solid gold or costume, gold hoops are here to stay. They are such a classic find. A beautiful gold hoop elevates any outfit. It is a must-have for one’s jewelry wardrobe.
4. Heart Necklaces
I keep seeing posts of very fashionable ladies wearing some really gorgeous heart necklaces. Whether it be an irregular elongated heart or a broken style, a heart necklace is the thing to have. Rather than wearing it alone, you may choose to include some of your most loved chains to create a cool layered look.
5. Chunky Chains
A statement chunky chain is the thing to add to your wardrobe this Fall.. During Fashion week, many top models chose chunky gold chokers and Lucite necklaces as their go to Jewelry for all the different events.
Another option is a glittery silver chain to give your outfits a completely modern look just as seen in the shows. A Chucky silver chain will definitely help you to get noticed whether you are wearing a fancy dress or casual jeans.
6. Single Earnings
Putting on single earring is not a new style of dressing. The amazing thing is that this trend of mismatching pairs of earrings has been around for a while. There are many fashion houses such as Fendi that have added these accessories to their Jewelry collections.
7. Sanibel statement ring
Here’s the ring to give your fingers a perfect look. Every girl should own a center stone (Sanibel) statement ring. The more colorful the stone the better. And certain styles with thinner bands can even be stacked for more drama.
8. Shoe Jewelry
Some people believe that when it comes to Jewelry, it is only worn on the hands, neck, ears,. etc For Fall 2020 many fashion houses such as Zimmermann (one of my favs) make fascinating out of the box Jewelry. They do this by adding different beautiful chains and other embellishments to certain shoe styles. The chain adorned mesh pumps by Bottega seen last season that was so popular is a perfect example of the way this look is going. Keep a lookout for jeweled shoes all Fall long.
9. Pearl everything
It’s so exciting to know that for another season, Pearls are here to stay. This year, you should expect to see designers adding these to their lines more and more in all shapes and sizes, such as the ones that were seen at Jason Wu during fashion week. Pearls either cultured or faux, add a feminine and timeliness touch to any outfit.
10. Tradegets
This is a professional fashion jewelry supplier that offers a host of trendy jewelry. To explore tradegets collection, visit https://www.tradegets.com/ It will soon become your go to for fun fashion jewelry finds for yourself and for all your gifts.
Fashion trends can be unpredictable, however, certain things will consistently remain in Vogue. We are hoping that this quick guide helps you to find some unique pieces to add to your collection that you will be certain to keep wearing for years to come.
Some of my favorite posts are when bloggers do a haul of empty beauty products that they love. I really wanted to give it a try. I’m not up to the entire video haul yet but I do have a fabulous bunch of the BEST products for you. These are my tried and true and absolute favs.
- The Fredrick Fekkai Blowout Refresher Dry Shampoo is amazing.. A few sprays and you look like you just left a salon
- You have seen me post about this tanning water before.
- I go through jars and jars of the Beauty Counter Cleansing Balm. You have to try it. My rep is Jean Voute.
- I found this moisturizer at the airport. It is the best thing I can find for crows feet!!
- The Vitamin D shower has changed my life. I see a huge difference in my hair and skin.
- This is my third jar of Rodan and Fields Microdermabrasion Paste. My rep is Mary Cassell
- This Kevin Aucoin Highlighter is incredible…
- Another thing I go through bottles of, this Bliss Eye Makeup Remover.
- I have posted about my love for Tom Ford Beauty. It is the only makeup that literally looks like you are ready for a photoshoot.
- Deborah Lippmann is the only nail polish that I use.
- I first found this foundation in Japantown in San Fran years ago. It has an SPF of 50 and provides the best coverage. Perfect for every day.