A reader asked me to post this as it was something that happened to her husband in the workplace and she thought her life was over. After a very very long struggle, she wrote this important article. I thought it was too important and too real not to share it with you…

A false accusation of molestation can hurt your credibility at work. It can affect your social standing as friends, neighbors, and acquaintances consider you a sinister person. But your relationship is the most serious concern in this situation. Your spouse or partner may not trust you anymore, at least not until you prove your innocence. But you can do your bit to clear your position and rebuild your relationship. It can take a lot of effort to convince your significant other about your innocence. But it is only a small price to save your bond and win the trust of your partner. Luckily, rebuilding your relationship after a false accusation is easy, provided you are committed to rebuilding it. Here are some tips to help.

Explain your story

Nothing is more important than explaining your side of the story to your spouse when facing a false allegation of molestation. Start an honest conversation with them, no matter how difficult it seems. Describe what led to the event and the possible reason the accuser had to bring up the allegation. If you were tempted to cheat on them, be upfront, apologize, and clear the situation. They will probably see your honesty if you try to persuade them with commitment and truth. Do not hesitate to speak the truth because it is far better than lying to cover yourself.

Gather evidence

Having evidence can add weight to your story, so gather as much as possible before starting the conversation with your partner. You can look for small but valuable pieces to prove the fallacy of the allegations. Maybe, the accuser brought the complaint because you did not respond to their moves. You can show text messages, emails, or phone conversation recordings to validate their actions. Likewise, look for visual evidence such as CCTV footage to establish your truth. 

Get witnesses

Witnesses can take you the extra mile while proving your innocence. If the charges came at your workplace, you may request colleagues to speak to your spouse and vouch for your good behavior. You may even ask your HR manager to discuss the matter with your partner. Anyone who can provide testimony about your truth can be a valuable resource for saving your relationship. Explain your situation, and people who know you will be happy to help. 

Fortify your legal defense

A strong legal defense can be the game-changer when it comes to saving your name and reputation after a false molestation accusation. Besides protecting you from penalty or jail time, it can also help you salvage your relationship. You must get in touch with a sex crimes attorney right after the accusation. Even better, take your partner along for the attorney meetings so that they have a clear view of your case. Getting a clean chit from the court is enough proof of your innocence, so you will not have to worry much about convincing your partner. 

Restore  normalcy in your relationship

Getting your partner on your side is also about restoring normalcy in your relationship. The road may be challenging, but it is worth making an effort. Resuming normalcy is all the more crucial if you have kids in the family. The last thing you want to have is an unhappy family where kids suffer because their parents seem to be on the opposite side. Talk to each other to maintain the connection. Spend time together, plan family outings, and work to bring intimacy back into the relationship. The more you bond as partners, the better things are likely to get. 

Focus on bringing the trust back

Rebuilding your relationship after a crisis is not a one-time task. It is an ongoing effort where you have to focus on bringing the trust back into the bond. Be truthful about the court proceedings and the internal investigations in your company. You may face challenges during the journey, but seek support from your partner rather than hide facts from them. They may actually help you make a strong comeback with financial and emotional support during the legal process.

Your relationship should be a priority when dealing with a false molestation charge. The allegation is serious, and it is natural for your partner to suspect you and resent the situation initially. They may feel cheated and sad, but you can do your bit to help them get through the emotional pain and trauma. Your relationship is worth the hard work, and you must not give up on it, no matter how challenging the circumstances are. Believe in yourself and your love! 

Restaurant Week: March 28 – April 3 • Opening Night Party: Tuesday, March 29

This spring marks a comeback for both Greenwich Restaurant Week and local food establishments! It’s been two years since the pandemic wreaked havoc on the restaurant and hospitality industries. With low Covid cases, mask mandates recently being lifted, and warmer weather, consumers are excited to reconnect with friends during this popular food event that attracts hundreds of diners and food enthusiasts from around the tri-state area.

Beginning on Monday, March 28th, and running through Sunday, April 3rd, more than 17 local restaurants are participating and offering special dining deals throughout the 7 day-long celebrations. Each participating restaurant will present special Greenwich Restaurant Week menus featuring prix-fixe pricing for a limited time. Guests can enjoy $25.95 lunches and $35.95 dinners – incredible prices for some of the area’s most renowned and popular local establishments. Guests are encouraged to make reservations in advance by calling the restaurant directly and mentioning Greenwich Restaurant Week when booking their table.

The week kicks off with the annual Greenwich Restaurant Week Opening Night Party on Tuesday, March 29th at Tony’s at the J House from 6:00pm – 8:30pm. This annual foodie event is one of the hottest events in town, featuring endless craft cocktails and premium wines, provided by local wine and spirit purveyors, as well as curated bites from many of the participating restaurant week establishments, such as Hinoki, Elm Street Oyster House, Little Pub and La Taqueria. Tickets are $75 each and include a VIP taste of restaurant week, the opportunity to meet top Greenwich chefs, and music by DJ Kunjan from Kunjan Collective. Plus, a portion of the ticket sales will benefit TAG, Transportation Association of Greenwich, a not-for-profit transportation service for Greenwich CT residents who are elderly and disabled children and adults. Tickets are on sale at GreenwichRestaurantWeek.com and can be purchased at the door.

Greenwich Restaurant Week is presented by Moffly Media, publisher of the area’s premier local magazine brands, including Greenwich Magazine. “For over 75 years, Moffly Media has been committed to supporting our local businesses,” says Andrew Amill, Chief Revenue Officer Moffly Media and Publisher of Greenwich Magazine. “We hope to continue the effort to ease the devastating impact Covid created on the restaurant and hospitality industries while creating meaningful moments for local residents and visitors to experience the best our area has to offer. We hope our community joins us in supporting local businesses while enjoying some amazing deals during restaurant week.”

Greenwich Restaurant Week 2022 sponsors include: First Bank of Greenwich, Flowcode, Nest Seekers International, Restorative Pain Solutions, Tony’s, and the J House. Participating restaurants include: Appetit Bistro, Bistro V, Coast Seafood, Elm Street Oyster House, Eastend, The Ginger Man, Grigg Street Pizza, Harvest Wine Bar & Restaurant, Hinoki, Kissaki Sushi, La Taqueria, Little Pub Greenwich, Mediterraneo, Méli-Mélo, MIKU Sushi Bar & Restaurant, Rosina’s, Ruby & Bella’s, South Bay Greenwich,

Terra and Tony’s at the J House Greenwich. Beverage sponsors include Aquafina, Cisco Brewers, Coffee for Good, Kettle One Vodka, SoNo1420 Distillery, TUCKGin, and Val’s Putnam Wines & Liquors.

For the most updated information on participating restaurants, Opening Night Party details, and this year’s sponsors, visit GreenwichRestaurantWeek.com. Follow us on Instagram at @GreenwichRestaurantWeek.

About Moffly Media: For over 75 years, Moffly Media has been the foremost authority on living your best life in Fairfield County. Through print, digital and experiential platforms, we deliver daily inspiration and information to thousands of loyal, sophisticated and discerning consumers who craves only the best ideas, services, products and experiences that reflect their high standard of living. We are deeply rooted in our community, passionate about giving back, and champion and support the businesses, organizations and families that call the Gold Coast and surrounding area their home. Moffly Media is the regional publisher of athome in Fairfield County, Greenwich, New Canaan, Darien & Rowayton and Westport, Weston & Wilton magazines. In addition to Greenwich Restaurant Week, Moffly Media also hosts annual events, such as the Best of the Gold Coast Connecticut, Best of Greenwich, Women In Business, Light a Fire Awards and athome Magazine’s A-List Awards. Many of the media company’s experiential platforms benefit local charities. In the past year, Moffly Media has donated over $1.6 million in cash and in-kind donations to support charities throughout Fairfield country.

I have been working a while with the talented designer Carolyn Bender of CB Lifestyle. I love her tablescapes. She just opened the most beautiful shop in Brentwood, CA. So if you are visiting the LA area soon you MUST stop by. For the rest of us, I am sharing Carolyn’s fabulous Easter tables. All of the items featured are available on her website HERE. Bon Weekend!