Spruce Up Spring…. Home Edit

I have received a bunch of emails asking for some new home accessories for readers who want to spruce up their spaces for spring. I feel your pain. After the holidays, I am always longing for a lighter look and want some fun new accessories to help achieve it. I also like to modern it up a little too. Here are some really fun items that won’t break the bank. I love them all and have a few in my own cart!

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1. This shape wine glass has been on my wish list for a while.

2. You can never have too many blue and white jars. This one is so pretty!

3. I am in love with this lamp how pretty would a pair be on either side of a console table?

4. This is such a chic sculpture. I love it on a side table. The gold color is perfection.

5. I bought these baskets for my own house. I use them for collecting everything!!!

6. These oversized pillows will look amazing for updating a sofa.

7. A friend gave me a similar one of these round pillows and I love how it looks on a side chair.

8. Everyone was looking for patio heaters last summer.. This is such a great one!!

9. Love this blue color.

10. This mirror is perfection.

11. I cannot pass up a pouf! I want this for my family room!!

12. How pretty is this mother of pearl side table/stool? LOVE IT!!!!

Have You Ever Wanted To Be A DJ? I have!!!!

Being a DJ (a disc jockey) has become a popular career choice over the last decade. With the likes of artists like David Guetta and Calvin Harris making huge careers out of being a DJ, it is no wonder why so many people are wanting to pursue it. While being a disc jockey used to be reserved for only those who had a huge following and could afford the expensive equipment, it has now become much more accessible, meaning more people are venturing down the path of being a DJ. Certainly, the internet has had a huge influence on this, as people have access to a wide range of tutorials and can put their music out there with a click of a button. So, if you are thinking of pursuing a career as a DJ, then here are some things you need to know. 

Is Being A DJ For You?

The first thing you need to consider before pursuing a career as a DJ is whether it is right for you. It would be a good idea to do your research on the role of a DJ, before you venture into a career. Entering any new career can be a little daunting, so it is always best that you prepare for yourself for what the role will entail.

While there is potential to make money from being a DJ, you will likely end up working for a long time before you start to see lots of money entering your bank account. This is definitely an important thing you need to consider because you can’t expect to jump into being a DJ and immediately start making a lot of money. You will likely have to consider DJing as a hobby on the side while you build your career and develop your skills.

What Sort Of DJ Do You Want To Be?

The next thing you need to consider when pursuing a career as a is what sort of DJ do you want to be. Most of the time when people think of DJ’s, they assume they need to be out at the clubs every weekend playing to a huge crowd. But this is not necessarily the case. Certainly, club DJs are one path you can go down if you want to live in the world of partying, but there are a couple of other options out there. 

A radio DJ is where the concept of being a disc jockey originated, so it is considered the classic form of DJing. Being a radio DJ can be a great option if you are after a more stable career as radio stations offer full-time DJ work. The great thing about being a radio DJ is that it is very versatile. All radio stations operate in their own way, so each day on the job can be different. Although it may be considered a more stable option, being a radio DJ still gives you the freedom and creativity to play the songs you like.

Another option you could pursue as a DJ is to be a producer. While some DJing is about playing pre-recorded music to an audience, as a producer you are the brains behind the music and the one who creates the music that is played. Being a producer requires much more knowledge about music production and audio engineering, so you may need to consider acquiring further education if you want to pursue the producer route.

Work At Your Local Radio

One thing that could help you with pursuing your new career is working at your local radio station. Assuming you are already a big music fan, working at your local radio station is a great way to get your foot in the door of the music world. Even if you are not presenting on radio, you will have the chance to be around a lot of like-minded people who share your passion for music. When it comes to expanding any career, networking is the number one way to do it. Meeting other people in your industry can be extremely useful as they will be able to connect you with other important and interesting people.

Not only this but working at your local radio will hopefully give you access to a lot of technical equipment that can help you with developing your skills as a DJ. Being a DJ is not an easy job, it involves a lot of knowledge about technical pieces of equipment. Working at a local radio station can help you learn all about the equipment and you can get excellent advice from some experienced disc jockeys. It is important to remember that the people you will meet at your local radio station would have been in the same position as you, so they will be more than happy to give you advice so you can get to where you want to be. 

How You Can Support Artists and Their Art in The Community

Without art, the world would be less expressive, colorful, and fun to live in. When people realize this, it would change their perspective and increase their appreciation for every form of art available for everyone’s enjoyment. 

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Below, let’s look at ways you can show your support to artists in your community as they continue to make the world a more creative place. Let’s begin.

  • Buy Art or Commission Some 

A direct way to contribute to an artist is by buying one of their works. Whether you need the piece they’ve already made, or you love their style and thus want a custom-created art, financially supporting artists is usually appreciated. 

It would keep them doing what they are doing, but it would also give the artist a boost to their self-esteem. It also helps in knowing that people still care for why they do. But, most importantly, they are willing to pay for it.

  • Participate In The Art Community

To get involved in an art community, you have to join it. First and foremost, art is a creative outlet. Therefore, people should try to find an art that resonates with them, irrespective of whether they feel talented. 

It is normal and encouraged to explore art on your own. However, you can join an art class in your school or community. This can be a way of introducing yourself to your creative side while also supporting instructors who make art education possible.

  • Visit Art Galleries

Visiting art galleries also exposes you to several works from different artists. Sometimes they might be part of history or theme, and you can experience emotional responses that could come from your exposure to different pieces. 

If you love art, you should visit galleries and museums to look at works from artists like Julie Blackmon, Homegrown. When you do this, you help keep their door open, not just for monetary gains, but to let the general populace know that art interest is still alive.

  • Donate to a Local Arts Charity

The art industry is primarily saddled with the issues of funding. Therefore if you are able financially, do support by donating. When you make donations to your local art fund or charity, you contribute to the support of arts and artist organizations immensely. 

Such gestures would aid the art industry by providing smaller institutions and individuals with the resources they need for artistic exhibitions, production, and much more.

  • Virtual Support

Social media is a very powerful tool, and sharing art images or artist pages through Instagram, Facebook, or Pinterest can be very valuable to artists in their exposure. In addition, when you leave a positive and genuine comment on an artist, designer, or gallery image, it would be uplifting and can make a big difference in their practice.

That’s A Wrap 

Art can enrich everyone’s lives, however, it can be challenging for people to get exposed to it without support. Therefore, supporting local art in communities is important. 

Being involved in arts and artists in your community can show you what artists near you are doing.

A Very Real Relationship Issue Sent To Me By A Reader…

A reader asked me to post this as it was something that happened to her husband in the workplace and she thought her life was over. After a very very long struggle, she wrote this important article. I thought it was too important and too real not to share it with you…

A false accusation of molestation can hurt your credibility at work. It can affect your social standing as friends, neighbors, and acquaintances consider you a sinister person. But your relationship is the most serious concern in this situation. Your spouse or partner may not trust you anymore, at least not until you prove your innocence. But you can do your bit to clear your position and rebuild your relationship. It can take a lot of effort to convince your significant other about your innocence. But it is only a small price to save your bond and win the trust of your partner. Luckily, rebuilding your relationship after a false accusation is easy, provided you are committed to rebuilding it. Here are some tips to help.

Explain your story

Nothing is more important than explaining your side of the story to your spouse when facing a false allegation of molestation. Start an honest conversation with them, no matter how difficult it seems. Describe what led to the event and the possible reason the accuser had to bring up the allegation. If you were tempted to cheat on them, be upfront, apologize, and clear the situation. They will probably see your honesty if you try to persuade them with commitment and truth. Do not hesitate to speak the truth because it is far better than lying to cover yourself.

Gather evidence

Having evidence can add weight to your story, so gather as much as possible before starting the conversation with your partner. You can look for small but valuable pieces to prove the fallacy of the allegations. Maybe, the accuser brought the complaint because you did not respond to their moves. You can show text messages, emails, or phone conversation recordings to validate their actions. Likewise, look for visual evidence such as CCTV footage to establish your truth. 

Get witnesses

Witnesses can take you the extra mile while proving your innocence. If the charges came at your workplace, you may request colleagues to speak to your spouse and vouch for your good behavior. You may even ask your HR manager to discuss the matter with your partner. Anyone who can provide testimony about your truth can be a valuable resource for saving your relationship. Explain your situation, and people who know you will be happy to help. 

Fortify your legal defense

A strong legal defense can be the game-changer when it comes to saving your name and reputation after a false molestation accusation. Besides protecting you from penalty or jail time, it can also help you salvage your relationship. You must get in touch with a sex crimes attorney right after the accusation. Even better, take your partner along for the attorney meetings so that they have a clear view of your case. Getting a clean chit from the court is enough proof of your innocence, so you will not have to worry much about convincing your partner. 

Restore  normalcy in your relationship

Getting your partner on your side is also about restoring normalcy in your relationship. The road may be challenging, but it is worth making an effort. Resuming normalcy is all the more crucial if you have kids in the family. The last thing you want to have is an unhappy family where kids suffer because their parents seem to be on the opposite side. Talk to each other to maintain the connection. Spend time together, plan family outings, and work to bring intimacy back into the relationship. The more you bond as partners, the better things are likely to get. 

Focus on bringing the trust back

Rebuilding your relationship after a crisis is not a one-time task. It is an ongoing effort where you have to focus on bringing the trust back into the bond. Be truthful about the court proceedings and the internal investigations in your company. You may face challenges during the journey, but seek support from your partner rather than hide facts from them. They may actually help you make a strong comeback with financial and emotional support during the legal process.

Your relationship should be a priority when dealing with a false molestation charge. The allegation is serious, and it is natural for your partner to suspect you and resent the situation initially. They may feel cheated and sad, but you can do your bit to help them get through the emotional pain and trauma. Your relationship is worth the hard work, and you must not give up on it, no matter how challenging the circumstances are. Believe in yourself and your love! 

The Granola Bar Rye

Have you been to the new Granola Bar in Rye? The newly renovated beautiful space had its grand opening earlier this month. One of the unique features of the expanded menu is that they are serving the most delicious brunch menu every day. In addition, they have expanded their hours to include an extensive dinner menu and a fabulous cocktail menu. I was lucky enough to join the amazing owners, Dana and Julie for brunch this week. OMG!!!! You are going to be blown away. The new space is the most incredible. It is so chic. For more information on The Granola Bar Rye, click HERE. And check out the photos from our great meal….

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Michael Jackson The Musical…We are going AGAIN!!

Did you miss it the first time around….?  Michael Jackson, The Musical is getting rave reviews and our group that saw it back in December went CRAZY for the show.  It was good we had to do it again!!!  We were lucky enough to get a large block of orchestra tickets for the night of June 6th at 7:00 pm.  I am so excited to see it FINALLY!!  I missed the December show. Each ticket is $160 so Email Me, to save your spot, they are going fast we are already 1/2 way sold out…..

MJ is the electrifying new Broadway musical that takes audiences inside the creative process of one of the greatest entertainers in history. Featuring over 25 of Michael Jackson’s biggest hits, MJ allows us to rediscover the man in the mirror – with an explosion of music and theatricality as unforgettable as the artist himself. Book by Lynn Nottage. Directed & Choreographed by Christopher Wheeldon.

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